The new iPhone has caused me more angst than
anything I’ve ever known. And it’s not as if I’m a stranger to them. I’ve lost
count how many years I had the other one and right from the start I sailed
through like someone born to be iPhone queen. Still, I guess even queens have
their problems.
Thankfully, I have Luke. He is the odd job boy
young man who comes once a week to do - odd jobs. I don’t know how I would have
coped without him especially as he has a memory similar to the one I could brag
about not so many years ago. I lost all recollection of one of my passwords so
I sent him a text pleading for assistance. He didn’t need to come to the house,
he knew it after only hearing it once. Hmmm, shouldn’t we avoid people like
that?!
So, Luke saved the day once again. My friend, Judy,
is asking if I can spare him one day to sort out her IT affairs. Gerroff!
Sorry, matey, he’s mine and mine alone, anyway he lives too far away from you.
I know you’ll be fed-up listening to my IT problems
so I’ll move to the subject of furniture.
But first, the painful back.
After suffering for years the back has finally
decided that ongoing pain is something I have to put up with. Except now it’s
worse than ever, until … I’m always happy when there’s an ‘until’….
After Joe died I took over his chair, one of those
that recline at the press of a button. It once belonged to my aunt and when she
died it came to us.
It struck me that after a few sessions with legs extended
my back would feel some sort of relief. Wrong. The pain worsened. Something had
to be done other than constant visits to my chiropractor. Getting personal
now….
A few pushes and prods in the painful area had me
realising that tummies are meant to be held in. Not so in my case, I could only
hold mine in by pressing hands FIRMLY. There was no way I could hold tummy in
without help yet when it was helped the pain disappeared. That decided me to
purchase some girdles… not hefty things like women wore in olden days, but with
enough pressure to hold the tummy firm. It seemed to work in the shop but after
a few hours the pain was agonising. Now they look pretty in the drawer where
they will probably spend a few months or years.
One day, in desperation I flopped onto the sofa, a
piece of furniture that I never used, and stayed there for a couple of hours until
I realised the pain had lessened.
AND THEN IT DAWNED ON ME – the problem wasn’t with
the tummy, it was the
damn chair all the time. Close inspection made me see the
reason. The padded upholstery was all wrong. The back of the chair was designed to
look attractive, but the middle of its design was a receding square panel much
deeper than the rest. And that was where the painful spine rested, day in, day
out. No wonder it got worse. The picture cannot portray the depth of the annoying section but I promise you it is quite an indentation. Oh my poor back!
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| Picture taken where chair now rests, on patio. Sunlight seemed to remove the lovely green colour but not in real life. |
The chair had to go.
Luke called round and shifted everything to where I
wanted it and the culprit chair was put out on the patio until such time as it
can properly be disposed of.
Brilliant.
It’s not easy to get rid of furniture but he has a
friend with a van who, he thinks, might dispose of it for me. I am still
waiting to see if anything transpires with the friend with a van!
You will have worked out by now that Luke is a godsend,
in more ways than one although I have my doubts about the friend with the van.
I still have the spine problem but it’s nothing
like as painful. Now, if it starts up I sit down for a while until the pain
goes away and of course there is still my lovely chiropractor to see me
through.

