Friends

26 May 2016

WE WAS BRUNG UP PROPER!


Congratulations to all who were born in the 1930s, 40s, 50s, 60s and early 70s!

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us and lived in houses made of asbestos. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, raw egg products, loads of bacon and processed meat, tuna from a can and didn’t get tested for diabetes or cervical cancer.

Then, after that trauma, our baby cots were covered with brightly coloured lead-based paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles or childproof doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes we had no helmets or shoes, not to mention the risks we took hitch-hiking.

As children we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags. We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle. Takeaway food was limited to fish and chips, no pizza shops, McDonalds, KFC, curry shops or Subway.

Even though all shops closed at 6pm and didn’t open at weekends, somehow we didn’t starve to death! We shared soft drink with our friends from one bottle and no-one actually died from it.

We could collect old drink bottles and cash them in at the corner shop to buy toffees, gobstoppers, bubble gum and some bangers. We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank soft drinks with sugar in them, but we weren’t overweight because WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day as long as we were back when the street lights came on. No-one was able to reach us all day, and we were okay. We would spend hours building our go-karts out of old prams and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. We built tree houses and dens and played in river beds with Matchbox cars. We did not have play stations, Nintendo, Wii, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 999 channels on Sky, no video/DVD films, no mobile phones, personal computers or internet chat rooms.

We had friends and we went outside and found them.

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. Only girls had pierced ears! We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt and the worms did not live in us forever!

You could only buy Easter eggs and hot cross buns at Easter time!

We were given air guns and catapults for our 19th birthdays. We cycled or walked to a friend’s house and knocked on the door or rang the bell – or just yelled for them.

Mum didn’t have to go to work to help Dad make ends meet.

Rugby and cricket had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn’t had to learn how to deal with disappointment. Imagine that! Getting into the team was based on merit.

Our teachers used to hit us with canes and gym shoes and bullies always ruled the playground at school. The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of… if they did it was an embarrassment.  Anyway, mostly they actually sided with the law.

Our parents didn’t invent names for their kids, like Kiora, Blade, Ridge or Vanilla.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility and we learned how to deal with it all.

And YOU are one of them… CONGRATULATIONS.

You might want to share this with others who had the luck to grow up as kids before lawyers and the Government regulated our lives for our own good.

And while you’re at it, show it to your kids so they know how brave their parents were.

14 comments:

Susan Kane said...

This is brilliant, absolutely brilliant.

Lisa said...

This is good. I can relate to all of it.
Lisa

A Cuban In London said...

That was fun to read. :-)

Greetings from London.

joeh said...

Those of us who survived look back at those days fondly...except for the measles, mumps, rubella, chickenpox, TB and polio part.

Ron said...

*thunderous applause*

BRAVA, Valerie! OMG...I LOVED THIS POST!!!!!!!! And you were spot on about how times have changed. I was born in the 50's, so MUCH of this I could definitely relate to.

And it's funny because I was talking to someone at work a few weeks ago about how women drank and/or smoked back in the 50's while they were pregnant and the babies all turned out completely healthy.

"You might want to share this with others who had the luck to grow up as kids before lawyers and the Government regulated our lives for our own good."

A-men!

FAB post, my friend! Have a fantastic weekend!

X

Valerie said...

Hi Ron, glad you enjoyed this bit of jollity. I admit to liking the bit about governments and regulations. Oh for the old uncomplicated times!

Denise inVA said...

What a lovely and fun post, and how true!!!

Mr. Shife said...

Enjoyed this, Val. Thanks for sharing as I was a child of the early 70s. Take care.

John Bain said...

And it was always sunny during the summer holidays. True fact that.

kden said...

Ain't that the whole truth, and life was good!!

Valerie said...

kden, yes, life was good.

Katie Eggeman said...

So True!

Geraldine said...

Loved reading this Val brought some awesome memories to mind, growing up as a kid in the ,60s. But I already knew I was lucky. I wouldn't want to be a kid now for all the tea in China. Does anyone use that saying anymore? ;-)

Valerie said...

Denise... re 'for all the tea in China'. Yes, I do. I am not in touch with modernisms, thank goodness.